Originally Posted by Fayerweather
of course, it's impossible to love two people at once right?
I understand how frustrating this is! I have two significant others that are equally important to me and that I love equally much - they're both my partners.
I told my mom and sister about it almost as soon as I started dating the second one, so they've know about it the whole time and they don't seem to have a problem with it. But, they have this idea that I'm dating both of them now so that I can decide which one I "actually" want to be with. Like our triad is some extended audition for which one of them gets to be my "real" life partner.
It really bothers me that I can't get this idea out of their heads! They can't understand that I would actually want to be with both
, and that I want them both
to be my real life partners.
Not to mention that if our relationship was really as they seem to envision - one long contest to see who's "better" - it would be really unhealthy!