Yes -- ORE. Some things are earned.
I'm glad you enjoy yours too. Silly grin all day if you want to!
And why WOULDN'T someone want to tend to their marriage and keep the ORE flames going? I'm always surprised that people are surprised to hear a marriage is going well. It's like they expect the marriage to what? Go flat?
And if my rship with DH isn't on strong footing, what business have I Opening Up to commit to Another?
When I'm not caring well for the one I got? Mind boggling to me.
Now that would be horrible bad. (squirms of the UGH kind) Rather than horrible good. (squirms of the YIPPEE kind)