The blog board is for blogs about your personal relationships and issues--not a place simply for venting about how you perceive the forum to be. I'm editing your post to remove the venting and leaving the bits that appear to actually be material suitable for a blog.
Incidently, posting just to bitch about the folks here or how much you dislike the site is a form of trolling that we don't suffer gladly 'round here. Consider this a warning.
When speaking of various forms of non-monogamy...it ain't poly if you're just fucking around.
While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.