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Old 09-19-2012, 05:33 PM
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Originally Posted by BoringGuy View Post
I'm curious what your thoughts are about individuals who are SPECIFICALLY attracted TO androgynous/gender-queer/transpeople. Would that be considered disrespectful or "phobic" or "anti" in any way?
Anti-establishment, anti-patriarchy, anti-stereotype.

Face it, most people are androgynous. All women have some male in them, and vice versa. However, our culture demands and promotes the extremes. We decorate baby's nursery in pink or blue before they even come out of the womb. We socially ostracize, ridicule and humiliate effeminate boys/men and make sure our tomboys are shoved into dresses.

Why not let each person be as femme or butch as they really want to be? Let Jack feel soft and pretty when he feels like it? Let Jill drive a monster truck, or watch football with the guys instead of being expected to be in the kitchen cooking for them?
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley

Mags (poly, F, 62) loving Pixie (poly, F, 40) since January 2009, living together since 2013
Seeing Kahlo (polyish, M, 45)
Master, (mono, M, 36), Pixie's Dom/bf for 3+ years
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