I'm sorry that I haven't been following this thread lately. I haven't been getting much time on Internet. I'm going to copy it all out and read it at home (no Internet, but more time with a computer). I see that you're trying for a child. Read my 2 comments on this thread
. As I wrote, the book "Kiss Me" has already been translated into German.
You might also find something useful in another comment of mine on http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=28690
A big hug to you and I'll write more after I've caught up.