Our boundaries uphold significant limitations in time spent alone together for the first year of a relationship. Also, limits on topics of discussion with me (time and place to discuss other people). Most importantly, very specific no contact rules during dates, bedtimes, mealtimes and family time. Which ensure ' safe times'.
The intent isn't to limit him from. Onding with others. But to limit the 'everything revolves around new shiny' issues that crop up with NRE. Because, that results in failure to uphold responsibilities at home. Also-the rules go for both of us ( all 3 of us actually).
I will send you a copy when im not on my phone. Its too hard to type out here.
"Love As Thou Wilt"