Without bringing up Cher or anyone else, describe your relationship with Nick?
You say you were primaries-for me thats difficult to imagine because my definition of primary is a housemate whom I share all financial and life maintenance responsibilities. So, for clarification, what was it that made you two primary?
What did you have that you don't have now? (again-without reference to anyone else. Just you and he. )
"Love As Thou Wilt"