He asked that I accept the changes that are happening, because it was inevitable that changes would happen. I plainly said our 15 year friendship and co-parenting relationship holds the same weight as your present relationship, and I don't have to accept changes that cause me to feel uncomfortable and sad. He can't have seperate expectations for his girlfriend, than me. If they are willing to negotiate some mutually agreed upon boundaries I'm in...to which I've gotten no response.
But hey, it can't be roses all the time. My peeps have been amazing lately though - we woke up and had coffee in bed this morning, joked around, made plans for the week. It was pretty great - I didn't think there would be a day that I could say that I love two people at once, but I do