Originally Posted by GalaGirl
Ack. I'm sorry to hear this. Good kink should be respectful of boundaries!
I am sorry you are feeling yucky.
You don't have to be into kink at all.
You have that right. But just hearing that you tried and ended up feeling like THAT is ugh.
Is he a top? If so I get the vibe he's not a great one if he's making you feel yucky. The top has to play within the bottom's specified arena or it is a no go. If he's a boundary breaker I don't blame you for not wanting to there at all.
Makes my hair stand on end. (and I do like some kink.) Ugh.
Whether kink or poly I wish people would just play honorably with some ethics and respect for their partner(s)!
No my husband is a bottom.
I give him credit he has tried. But unfortunately kink is something he can no live without. Which I can understand and have no problem. I just wish he could find a play partner.