I'd say he's still dissing you.
Hanging up in the middle of a convo because wifey walks in? I'd tell him, no more phone calls then, emails only, until you've moved out.
One bedroom apt and they are still sharing a bed? He can sleep on the couch, or go crash at a friend's.
Dating, going hiking together, because he has no one else to do it with? Get on meetup.com and find a a hiking group or other hobby group. Make new friends. If he and his wife are broken up, they need to stop dating.
Are they still having sex?
I never get when people are supposed to be broken up and still see each other.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
me: Mags, 59, living with:
miss pixi, 37