Originally Posted by Dolly
I fell in love with, and married, an undiagnosed bipolar.
I'm actually the only person in my current poly configuration who doesn't
have a diagnosed mental illness. My husband is bipolar, his girlfriend has depression, and my boyfriend has depression & anxiety.
My opinion? It's tough but it depends on the severity of the condition and how the various people handle it. My husband is sooooo much easier to live with post diagnosis and treatment, and it has enabled him to reconcile with various friends he had lost because of his previous behaviour too.