Just wanted to welcome you to our forum.
It sounds like taking it one day at a time is the right thing to do for now. P and B are probably going to go through a period of transition, as they figure out what their standing is on things. Enjoy what you have today, so that you have no regrets tomorrow.
The others have given good advice here, and if you post updates on your situation, people will give more good advice.
I'm glad you could join us.
Love means never having to say, "Put down that meat cleaver!"