My advice would be to make sure he knows exactly how you feel before you get married.
If he feels marriage is worth entering into, given his (new) understanding of what marriage to you entails, then go for it.
ETA: No point in entering a marriage when you know there are going to be issues, especially if you already know what the issues are. Marriage is not a trap we spring. It may be you are not ready to marry.
Last edited by Clyde; 09-16-2012 at 12:53 AM.