I ran across this article today and it seem to touch on several topics that get discussed here quite frequently. http://boldlygo.co/?p=205
....Time management, veto power, abuse, enlightenment, poly superiority, appropriation, etc.
Does the author have some valid points? ....do these conditions exist in the community at large ?
I liked the privilege part.
it makes sense to me however I never thought of it that way. And My experiences have been so different that it was very interesting to hear the back and forth mental gymnastics that can occur in large tribes regarding abuse of a partner.