Originally Posted by nycindie
I would keep on telling him to stop and then I'd get pissy and the original problem was buried under my rebellion at him telling me what to do or trying to fix what he thought I couldn't handle.
Oh Lord yes! Often by the time I've once again gotten it through to him that he is taking away my agency, I can barely remember what it was for.
And we do have to have this refresher argument every so often because it doesn't stick well with him.
At least after last night, the afternoon of time with GF making cake and the festivities afterwards seems like small potatoes. If I can handle his large personality I'm pretty sure I can handle this.