The behavior-not poly.
My phone-crappy for me typing lomg responses.
My short version-started with an affair.
To you-stop the affair u r in, come clean with hubby, read the story, maybe even together, depends on him, dig deep into yourself to identify the truest form of urself. You may be poly. If so, this is your wake up call.
No more living life 'running on autopilot' (like the majority of people). Now its time to commit to deep honesty with urself and focus on becoming the best gersion of urself-each day.
Its a hard way to start. But the payoff in the end-sublime!!
"Love As Thou Wilt"