You're very welcome! I'm positive you don't need this advice, but nonetheless -- whatever you do, make absolutely certain to remain within the spirit and the letter of anything you two agree to, especially now. Don't assume anything, don't ask for forgiveness rather than permission, talk WAY too much.  It can be so hard to get over a beach of trust at this stage, even one that wasn't intended, and trust and love are what will keep you guys strong. On the flip side, Mt, you must give trust -- don't go making rules just because they'll let you, be brave and as giving as you can, believe what they tell you.
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The major players. Me, under-30 bi female. Gia, girlfriend of 3+ years. Clay, new boyfriend/dom. Davis, ex/"it's complicated."
The supporting cast. Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler. Dexter, Gia's lover. Helen, Eric's lover. Izzy, Clay's partner.
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