Originally Posted by ThatGirlInGray
Nerd Love, Wooot!!
Me and my guys are also nerds, to varying degrees on various subjects. Welcome!
If I may ask, what do you picture as your ideal poly relationship? A triad? Quad? V? N? Or something with less structure, where everyone involved has multiple relationships, some shared and some not?
Well, fantastically, I don't know. In an IDEAL world we would probably have something like huxley's "brave new world". But in this one I really don't know. I have been toying with the Idea of an all bi thing where everyone lives and sleeps under the same roof. I can't see it lasting long or safely if it isn't controlled to some extent. AKA you can't sleep with just anyone off the street as peoples feeling must be concerned. We all have to have things we do together, nerdness, work, ect. And we all have to be willing to change and learn for the group. Well anyway that is me in my Un-poly dreams.