Originally Posted by AnnabelMore
Reading posts in the Life Stories and Blogs section is a great way to get a sense of the wide range of ways people are living as poly. It's a lot more balanced than reading in the Poly Relationships section, which tends to focus on problems. The sites that GG suggested are also good. It may be easier for people to offer you advice after you've developed your thinking on the topic to the point where you can ask concrete questions.
Thank you so much for responding. I have thought of the subject for some time and I do want to commit to this lifestyle.
One question I have, is it better to join an already existing family or start my own from scratch? Should I focus on a more ordered and controlled relationships, or something more loose? What I don't want to do is get sick.
I will read the sights and books, can you suggest any highlights?