Originally Posted by LovingRadiance
We have specified D/s dynamics. So, there are specific things that don't change-for example, which side of him I walk, he always orders the food if we go out to eat, if he sets out an outfit he wants me to wear, I wear it-regardless of the plans for the day. Those remain the same NO MATTER where we are. Making them subtle reminders of our dynamic even in circumstances where I may be "in charge" or whatever.
This made me smile because I have a lover who is a dom and when we go out I usually call the shots - I choose the venue and often do the ordering... but as soon as we get home he puts me in my place
do other people who know you ever pick up on these reminders when you're out? Or is it very personal to the two of you?