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Old 09-11-2012, 09:09 PM
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I would want to know, yes. I think I would do my best to understand the thinkng if something so big was hidden from me, and try to be sympathetic, but I also think I'd be hurt that I wasn't told, like I wasn't trusted, and like I wasn't being given all the relevant info a situation that intimately involves me. You don't need to tell her the details, or vent, but why can't you just tell her that there was a boundary violation?
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