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Old 09-10-2012, 03:23 AM
RunningMan RunningMan is offline
Join Date: Jul 2012
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Originally Posted by nycindie View Post
Yes, DADT, if mutual, is acceptable in poly. It's not that your partner doesn't know you have other relationships or didn't consent to that and you're sneaking around; it's that you both agreed to keep your other relationships under the radar.
But in my case he doesn't want to know when I'm meeting him and I basically have to think of ulterior reasons to leave the house. He doesn't even want to know that they exist. So that's why I feel like it's deception.
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