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Old 09-09-2012, 06:31 PM
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Everyone's experience with going through revealing the truth about themselves is different. I was very fortunate in that my husband suspected I was bi before I totally opened up about it and before we were married. I don't know that you will have the horrifying collapse of your marriage described by cuninlingwist, you will have your own experience based on your own marriage. You might gently test the waters by asking him his opinion of bisexual women and then seek to find out how he feels about bi women who have more than one partner. I do think you need to be honest either way. You also have to be prepared for whatever reaction he might have. You might need to consider what you will do if he reacts badly. I would approach it from a standpoint of negotiating the best outcome for all three of you - you, him, the baby. I wish you the very best of luck.
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