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Old 09-09-2012, 05:09 PM
Icewraithonyx Icewraithonyx is offline
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I would encourage telling him as gently as possible. As you said, you thought it was just a phase earlier and have recently realized that you were lying to yourself as well as him. If you continue to conceal it from this point, it becomes a lie of omission rather than self ignorance. As the "rather straight-laced" (as she puts it) husband of a wife who discovered she was bi after we were married, I have to say that concealing things makes just about everything worse. And he may surprise you by being more understanding than you fear.
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