Originally Posted by LifeLongCpl
I would have to agree with you Cindie.
I feel that everything that happens in poly or any marriage/relationship for that matter needs to start with you two talking it over first. If not, there's too much room for jealousy.
Well, yeah, it would have been much better if we talked about these boundaries beforehand. I thought that the only boundary my wife and I had was "we're 100% honest with each other", but it turns out we have other boundaries as well, and I crossed them.
If we had discussed things beforehand, then either I wouldn't have made this leap in the first place, or if I had, it would have been completely different. We were so vain my wife and I, thinking we have the perfect marriage