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Old 09-09-2012, 05:18 AM
theopol theopol is offline
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Originally Posted by LifeLongCpl View Post
I would have to agree with you Cindie.

I feel that everything that happens in poly or any marriage/relationship for that matter needs to start with you two talking it over first. If not, there's too much room for jealousy.

~N

Well, yeah, it would have been much better if we talked about these boundaries beforehand. I thought that the only boundary my wife and I had was "we're 100% honest with each other", but it turns out we have other boundaries as well, and I crossed them.

If we had discussed things beforehand, then either I wouldn't have made this leap in the first place, or if I had, it would have been completely different. We were so vain my wife and I, thinking we have the perfect marriage
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