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Old 09-08-2012, 09:53 PM
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One of the things I strive for in my relationships is loving without attachment. I, and others, wrote about attachment in this thread:

Attachment in secondary 'ships


Maybe you will find it helpful!
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An excellent blog post on hierarchy in polyamory:
solopoly.net/2014/10/31/why-im-not-a-secondary-partner-the-short-version/
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