Hi Dustin and Natalia,
Welcome to our forum.
I can relate to your difficulty in finding people of like mind as yourself. I myself was raised Mormon in Utah and kind of became a square peg hammered into a round hole. It took me a long time to truly think for myself, and surround myself with people who were supportive.
With patience, you may very well meet just the person you were hoping for. In the meantime, keep poking around on these boards, and see what calls to you.
Glad to have you aboard,
Love means never having to say, "Put down that meat cleaver!"