It seems to me that poly is not about the "free love" that some come into it thinking. It seems to be about self examination and relationship examination. There is nothing like poly to make a person evaluate themselves and those they have relationships with. It seems that what comes up most is issues of integrity, communication compatibility and shared relationship goals and values.
This notion seems so simple, but is so incredibly complex at the same time. No "free" about it. Often there comes a huge expense.
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