Originally Posted by lolalondon
But I will add this: it seems to that Evan is a essentially a polygamist, not a polyamorist. Nothing wrong with that, but it is different.
I am curious as to what you see as the distinction.
My understanding is that polygamy
is marrying more than one, a "plural marriage". This include polygyny
(one man, many women married to that man) and polyandry
(one woman, many men married to the woman).
is loving more than one. There are no subtypes based gender, since they all get lumped into the same thing.
So based on my understanding, since he is not looking to marry any of the women, and since there is a requirement that love be involved, it falls under polyamory for me.
Is your understanding of the definitions different?