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Old 09-08-2012, 02:42 AM
JaneQSmythe JaneQSmythe is offline
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... Anytime I say something she doesn't agree with, she hurts herself and then blames it on me. She has convinced others that I'm abusive when we argue. ... no joke, I fear for my life leaving her. I have received death threats from people following me when she thought I was leaving once. If I leave, there will be a hit on me.
This is manipulative, emotionally abusive behavior. Do you think that this environment is a safe place for your son to be?

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I almost jumped off a bridge once, but I couldn't get passed the ledge. I just got down and cried in the street. And people just kept walking by.
I am not a professional counselor. The world is not a kind place - but some people are. I hope you find the help that you need. The National Domestic Violence Hotline National Domestic Violence Hotline may be able to provide some suggestions.

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