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Old 09-08-2012, 12:53 AM
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Oh OK... I never really considered a DADT relationship a poly relationship, because it's based on deception and poly relationships are open and honest. So I guess I just want more openness.

DADT isn't based on deception if the people involved have AGREED to DADT. It's only deceptive if one of you makes a unilateral decision to be DADT without discussing it with the other(s) involved. If one or both of you has a problem with the DADT status, that is not "deceptive", it's just someone agreeing to something and then deciding they don't like it after the fact.
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