Both Fly and I and Punk and I enjoy pointing out attractive women to each other, it's kind of a bonding thing, I think. But I definitely need to be in the right mood, and it needs to be a together thing. If a partner is checking people out, especially obviously or oogling, when I'm trying to communicate or give or receive focused attention, I think that's rude. Like watching tv or playing video games - if we're both doing it together, or if I'm doing something else, that's fine. But if we're supposed to be having a conversation and you're watching Dancing with the Stars from the corner of your eye, you're being disrespectful and dismissive.
- Moonlight, single, leans monogamous, girlfriend since 6/2012
- Punk, married guy, poly, FWB since 9/2011 with an emphasis on the "F"
- No longer lives with ex-boyfriend Fly (1/2006 - 12/2013, my introduction to nonmonogamy, ultimately amicable breakup), and his 10-year-old son Kiddo