It is interesting in our house. My husband has the power when it comes to sex and anything intimite in the relationship mostly because he can get very jelouse and the adding of my GF is very new to us (6 months) so she and I want to make him feel as comfortable as possible. Other wise I have the power. When it coems to any scheduling of events or planning anything i am the one to do and the one they both come to to see if they can do something. (WHat are we doing next tues? type thing) Both my husband and my GF (especially my husband) are bad planners and not good at making choices so I have just kind of filled this role. I think this is interesting. Does anyone else share different kinds of power with in your relationships?