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Old 09-07-2012, 01:36 AM
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I never use the words polyamorous or non-monogamous when I first meet people, and I definitely do not limit myself to only the poly community. I flirt and talk with guys wherever I meet them, and if we hit it off or go out on a date, I talk about exclusivity or non-exclusivity. People understand it much better.
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An excellent blog post on hierarchy in polyamory:
solopoly.net/2014/10/31/why-im-not-a-secondary-partner-the-short-version/
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