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Old 12-11-2009, 09:49 AM
PickMoreDaisies PickMoreDaisies is offline
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Location: BC, Canada
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Default Shifting 'power'

I think that I like to GIVE the power to the person that happens to be having the most difficulty dealing with issues at that time. I think that it helps to have the feeling that you have some say so when you are having a hard time dealing with things and so I willingly give up the 'say so' when others are struggling. Does that make sense?

I wouldn't want to weild power over someone that i care about at any time really, but i think that it allows the other person to feel that their feelings are heard if they feel capable of making important decisions about the relationship at critical points in it and that those boundaries/feelings will be respected.
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