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Old 06-02-2009, 05:36 AM
Mark1npt Mark1npt is offline
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Welcome Paula, all the advice you're received so far is dead bang on. My personal definition of poly is like Mono's, one of depth. My wife of 27 years and her best friend of 20 only 6 months ago entered into this "V" relationship. They are each monogomous with me. They are not bi. Boy has it been a learning experience for all of us. Let me say that I personally wouldn't have entered into a poly relationship with a total stranger, nor felt comfortable enough to suggest this to my very monogomous wife. For me and now us, it was the 20+ year friendship and close feelings that brought this about. If you're not comfortable approaching total strangers with the idea, is there anyone special in your life that you or your husband have thought of or had deep personal feelings for over the last few years that you might consider a relationship with?
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