Also, remind yourself, this all consuming attention time with baby IS TEMPORARY. Its hard when ur in the midst of it, to see the light at the end of the tunnel. But it does get easier.
Another thing i did, was put baby in carseat and i would take a bath while they sat secure in the carseat on the floor next to the tub. It sounds silly- but really it was a godsend sometimes!
"Love As Thou Wilt"