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Old 09-05-2012, 07:45 PM
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Yeah I guess I just feel bad because I feel like my new guy might see himself as less important to me because I'm not as close to him yet.
Then talk to him about it. Make sure he knows that if he wants something, then he has to let you know.

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I'm never sure of how to handle little things, and this all pretty new to me. I also sometimes over think things and worry for no reason.
I am getting that impression, yes

It's something that caring folks do - want to think everything through to make sure that nobody is being hurt. But the more energy you expend on that, the less you will have for the relationships themselves, you know?
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