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Old 09-05-2012, 05:58 PM
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Wait a minute -- I'm confused.

Are you guys going to hold off on pursuing poly until after you've worked on your relationship with each other some more, or not?

You both seem really impatient. I think you would benefit from stepping back and building your foundation to be stronger, develop better communication and deepen your intimacy with each other. I see that you both have issues with anger, too. Therapy or counseling would be the next step I see for you two, seriously.

Poly can wait, sheesh! Reconnect with each other before connecting with anyone else. Why in such a hurry?
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An excellent blog post against hierarchy in polyamory:
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