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Old 09-04-2012, 11:40 PM
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Originally Posted by leslie View Post
I, too am struggling with trying to accommodate to my partner's desires and about to give up.

Does anyone have anything positive to say in the way of encouragement to continue? It just seems that there is a very basic incompatibility between people who are mono and poly.
thanks for listening.
We have a few very good threads on the subject of Mono/Poly relationships. You can do a search, but here are a few links:

Poly rights within a relationship

The Struggling Mono Thread

Relatively New Poly/Mono Challenges...
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An excellent blog post on hierarchy in polyamory:
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