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Old 09-04-2012, 08:59 PM
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Ahh, that's why, not because you don't know what you think of them!

I hope you get through this transition OK, I think it's nice that he didn't talk so much about his thinking process the last couple of weeks - usually I want to know what my husband is thinking but after reading this, I realized that once when he was struggling with figuring out if he should keep dating one person, he'd talk about how he didn't think things would work out, then he'd see them and decide it would, then he'd see them and decide it wouldn't....well it was tiring and somewhat disappointing when every time I thought it was settled he'd change his mind, I'll have to remember this next time it happens.

I sure know I'd struggle with having metamours I didn't feel I could trust, you certainly handled it better than I would have.
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