Well -- if you and DH have not sorted out your "Polyship Operations Manual" to include what sort of open rship model(s) you are seeking and want and where a "veto" thing comes into play... why are you guys dating prematurely?
The Other person is going to know what's on offer at this store here. Makes dating a lot clearer for all parties involved if you know your own selves first. Maybe take a time out to sort?
To me if you are at the "meet the metamour" place this IS already a relationship. She is the official GF already.
Last edited by GalaGirl; 09-04-2012 at 08:36 PM.