Originally Posted by SeventhCrow
We each make decisions for ourselves.
I don't think I'd operate under any other power dynamic--certainly not one where somebody else would presume to choose partners for me. Nope, I'd likely have to slow roast and eat anybody who tried to make that sort of decision for me. I keep an extra bottle of BBQ sauce around for that day when I decide to toss the kittehs in the slow cooker and I could use that sauce on somebody trying to make decisions for me.
Yes, not my idea of a good time and I want to express NOT how I operate! Still, works for them. It would be too much hard work bossing everyone around.
That is why I didn't want to use the word "power" as its not about control so much as energy flow between people.
Does that make sense?