So, I recently joined this forum because my wife is thinking about poly relationships again.
We have been married for thirteen years. While in college we made some poly friends and tried it for a little while but it didn't work out well for me. Then we moved across the country.
There were some rocky times while we were on the east coast and we've essentially been mono for the last ten years or so. I think our relationship is in a much better place now.
However, my wife has temporarily moved back to the east coast while on sabbatical and has reconnected with some friends who are poly.
Right now, I'm not sure what I'm looking for. Maybe just someplace to lurk and think about how this would work for us.