View Single Post
  #17  
Old 09-03-2012, 10:23 AM
Cleo Cleo is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: Europe
Posts: 414
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by MeeraReed View Post
You sound intelligent and rational and you are clearly able to do the hard work of dealing with your own insecurities. But I don't think that's what you're dealing with here. I think your husband is besotted and he's asking way too much of you.
yeah, this is exactly the dilemma I'm struggling with. Sometimes I think: suck it up, this is what poly is about, deal with your insecurities and get over it.. and then I think he IS asking too much of me.

He's not besotted though. I've seen him besotted and this is not it. But *what* it is? I have no clue, and I guess that's what so threatening: the not understanding.
__________________
early forties, straight.
the guys: Ren - husband; Curlz - bf of 2 years, Brig - bf of 7 months; Knight - non-sexual bf; MrBrown - it's complicated
Ren's girls: Lou - gf of 2 years, Liz - very new gf
Reply With Quote