Originally Posted by lovefromgirl
No, dammit, I'm only tiny on the outside.
I'll just start calling you "TARDIS-girl"!
I have ranted many times about me being in the minority because I am "just poly" - I don't do SCA, am not Pagan, am not into Kink (in the traditional definition), don't really want anything that Swinging offers. Have no problem if others want that, but it really does seem like I am the rarity.
I have seen some pretty messed-up folks hiding their dysfunction under the guises of poly or kink (or both). The idea of actually having stable relationships *before* starting into things like this seems to escape them.