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Old 09-02-2012, 06:55 PM
Skye Skye is offline
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I agree with Kyle, take it slowly. I speak from experience because we didn't take it slowly, at all, with our quad. It backfired and we took a step back for quite some time (in part because I had a baby as did the other girl of my quad) and though we remained best friends the whole time, being slow would have made a huge difference. If you base your relationship on friendship more than sex, it will be more fulfilling and last longer.
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39 years old, married (almost) 17 years to Avatar, in quad relationship for 2 years with Busbuddha and his wife, 3 kids between us. Have been practicing non-monogamy for 8-ish years.
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