Okay, so you feel that "poly ways" are vastly different from "mono ways" and monos have incredible difficulty understanding polyfolk. Several of us are saying poly relationships aren't all that different from mono ones and that there are challenges in helping a mono understand, but it can be done. Remember, that many of us who practice poly in our lives were staunchly mono prior to doing so. But you disagree and want to argue your view. Alright, so monogamous peeps have a hard time "getting" what poly is -- so what? Did you actually want a discussion or just the opportunity to defend your stance? What's the big deal? What's your point?
The world opens up... when you do.
Oh, oh, can't you see? Love is the drug for me. ~Bryan Ferry
"Love is that condition in which another person's happiness is essential to your own." ~Robert Heinlein