You can fashion your relationships around anything you want though. Who says he has to be mono with you or you have to meet his mother? There are no rules here; Its poly, we make our own rules. Hell, I had a boyfriend for three years that I only saw once a month and never fucked. It worked for us and we made it what it was. My other boyfriend lives with me and my husband and I would have it no other way. Neither would any of us. There is no need for definitions, just do it and see if others want to do it with you. Start talking about what you want with those you want it with.
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